LOVE TODAY and what I think.

I thought I’ll take this time to express my thoughts…pertaining to love of course.

***Full disclosure** I am not a professional or licensed.

This is just me sharing my perspective. If you can relate please feel free to comment below!

Love today….

In this current generation of young people, specifically in the U.S.

There is so much struggle and immaturity.

Being on social media alone the dating scene is a bit wild.

We are way past the era of catfishes and fake accounts, and maybe “exposing”.

We are now experiencing, things on social media like lack of privacy, stalking, emotional and social cheating, and even false livelihoods.

How did we get here?

I mean since when did it become a thing

to be openly and intentionally cold hearted?

So many people take pride in not being in love and see being single and living carelessly.

I’m not saying that its bad to be single and just have fun, but its become more of an adoptive lifestyle for many young people.

Rather than actually doing what we want to do whether or not that means a relationship is included.

Who created this handbook? Why can’t we just love the person we want to love/ What is so hard with being faithful and being loving?

Granted, not all our experiences in love is going to be perfect or is going to be great.

However, that’s the beauty in life being able to grow and learn. I feel as though dating doesn’t and shouldn’t have all these rules in place.

Love is not objective, it’s different for everyone. 

I think we have entered part of our lives where we have overconsumed a lot of media and a lot of perceptions from other peoples lives, we haven’t paid much attention to what our lives contain.

This weird obsession of always using other sources to get a perspective or to validate what we’re feeling and experiencing, but we never look inwards and use what we know and how we feel to be enough to confirm it.

I hope that we all experience and have the space to feel what we feel and love the people we genuinely want to.

No matter what society says.

I hope this gave you some perspective and made you think…Thank you for reading, all the best <3

XOXO,

Sangai