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Before college I had never really experienced such stress and anxiety.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This was all new to me so in no way did I recognize how bad my mental health was getting.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">In my eyes it was \u201creasonably\u201d explained as \u201ccollege is hard\u201d and not \u201cI have poor mental health\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">My major was not the only stressor of my life at the time, but I wasn\u2019t learning what I was confident in.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This caused a decrease in motivation in all my classes and wanting to get out of my room.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Over time I had started to lose weight because another way my body reacted to stress was having no appetite.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Once again, not being at home and not realizing my poor mental health caused me to not take care of myself.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">During my Spring semester as a freshman I was diagnosed with alopecia areata.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">For some background that is an autoimmune hair loss disease.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">My body\u2019s way of reacting to my stress, anxiety and my poor diet was my hair falling out.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Can you imagine the stress and anxiety you would get if your hair started falling out because of how stressed and anxious you were? Yeah it wasn\u2019t fun.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I had so much stress and anxiety that by mid summer I didn\u2019t have any hair on the bottom half of my head.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">As I said before I had other things going on in life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Like the classic freshman year heartbreak, and family drama back at home.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Even being an hour away felt like thousands of miles away. 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Mental breakdown? Don\u2019t want to go into work?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">There\u2019s nothing I can\u2019t handle.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This has helped me so much because everything I have experienced, I\u2019ve come out on the other side.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">College is filled with so many experiences but remind yourself that the good weighs out the bad and you\u2019ll get through whatever you need to.&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Growing up I was very confident, loud and wanted to be a part of everything. Once I was in middle school I was convinced that I would move across the country for college and that I wanted to get away from New York. That was before Covid happened and not realizing until I was deciding what college to go to that I was scared. I knew I wanted to go away but I had changed my mind about how far. 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